A responsible person fulfills the assigned duty by
staying true to the aim.
Duties are carried
out with integrity and a sense of purpose.
ircumstances, necessity, and
choice place people in particular situations and roles. Moral responsibility is to accept
what is required, to honor the role which has been entrusted, and to perform
conscientiously and to the best of ones ability. The actor has been given the part.
He or she should be mindful of that and not wish to be somewhere or someone else. Duties
should be carried out with integrity and a sense of purpose.
Personal responsibility in life comes from many expected and unexpected
sources and involves partnership and participation, commitment and cooperation. Social and
global responsibility requires all the above as well as justice, humaneness, and respect
for the rights of all human beings. Particular attention is paid to ensure that benefit is
for all without discrimination.
Some interpret responsibility as a burden and fail to see it as personally relevant. It
becomes convenient to project it as someone elses problem. These people den their
responsibility, yet when it comes to rights, they are the first in line!
A responsible person perseveres, not stubbornly with a blind focus, but with the
motivation of fulfilling the assigned duty by staying true to the aim. When there is the
consciousness of being an instrument or a facilitator, a person stays neutral and flexible
in his or her role. One remains detached yet has a clear understanding of what needs to be
done. When the role is played accurately, there is efficiency and effectiveness which
result in satisfaction and contentment at having made a significant contribution.
Responsibility often calls upon humility to help overcome obstacles created by ego. For
instance, one acting responsibly does not take over or control the outcome. One acting
responsibly also has the maturity to know when a responsibility should be handed to
another. A major barrier is becoming too attached to the responsibility. Being
over-conscientious leads to worry, doubt, and fear, which can have a crippling effect on
decision-making and result in devastating consequences.
Responsible individuals work in collaboration. That is true for all tasks
and especially important in areas which affect the lives of others. Responsible
individuals operate on two premises: 1) that all participants have something worthwhile to
offer, and 2) that the situation requires a cooperative rather than a competitive
environment. Responsible people do not fall into the traps of inferiority or superiority;
they recognize that the optimum outcome cannot depend on one person, one group, or one
nation alone.
Responsibility is managing time and resources to bring maximum benefit while accommodating
necessary change. Decisions in the consciousness of being responsible for social or global
welfare encourage actions which are performed in a selfless way. In taking responsibility
for others rights, a budget of all asset - mental, physical, and spiritual - needs
to be devised. That includes taking into account accumulated and available resources and
their efficient and equitable use. Inattention, carelessness, corruption, greed, or lack
of judgment result not only in some people or areas receiving nothing, some not enough,
and others too much, but also in the unnecessary loss of human lives and natural
resources.
Whether the act is for world or for individual improvement, when that role
and responsibility are accepted, there needs to be an internal support system which
ensures that essential qualities are assimilated and put into practical activity. Such is
necessary for everyone and especially so for parents, educators, religious leaders,
political leaders, and celebrities, as well as trendsetters from various disciplines,
since they are all role models of behavior. They have significant roles because they help
shape norms which have enormous influence on weaving the fabric of society. One principle
of learning is observing the behavior and real-life experience of those we admire and
respect. Therefore, it is incumbent upon role models to accept and honor the
responsibility of being "examples." The bigger the part, the greater the concern
should be for the message being imparted and its impact on the lives of others.
It has been said that with rights go responsibilities, and within that concept the law of
action becomes operable. Each human being is like a star consisting of his or her own
small world. Each star has to perceive its own world and look for the balance of rights
and responsibilities. Life is the field of action. On that field, each ones part
should be enacted with responsibility and accountability. Those who wear the crown of
responsibility embedded with the jewels of rights become the stars with a positive
influence on the world!
"As members of the United Nations, we also bear a responsibility towards each
other. Finally, we share together a responsibility to the world community for seeing to it
that the principles of the Charter and of the international law and procedure which we
have slowly but surely been building, are interpreted with judgment as well as with
vision, and with moderation as well as with justice."
Mr. Lester B. Pearson,
President of the Seventh Session
of the UN General Assembly,
October, 1952
The Value Statements are drawn from Living
Values: A Guidebook, a publication of the Brahma Kumaris. These
were used by Living Values Education as part of the conceptualization
and consultative process during the initial meeting with UNICEF in
New York in August of 1996.